30 days of Praying for you and your husband! Day 7

Day 7

Pray for purity

We live in a world where the impurities have been advertised as “It’s not wrong”, “it’s the perspective of the viewer”,”Everybody does it”. Purity has become an object of mockery and is scheduled for boring people. When I was a teenager I started receiving a lot of teaching on purity from my Sunday school teachers, Sunday sermons in the prayer center that I attended from childhood, the mission camps and youth retreats and not to forget about my strict parents. One famous quote that I heard often was this “Holy life is a Jolly life”. This statement sounds funny to people who are stuck with impure lifestyle not knowing the joy in purity. But the problem gets a little too messy when purity is not a priority in marriage. Many marriages are broken due to virtual relationships, pornography and adultery. Today let’s commit our lives to purity and protect our husbands from the clutches of the sexist world.

Let’s pray!

For you

  • Lord, I submit my body as a living sacrifice to you! My body belongs to you as you have bought it with your precious blood. May I not submit that to any physical pleasures outside marriage.
    (Romans 12:1)
  • Lord, I submit my body to be modest in my dressing. May I adorn me with beautiful clothing of dignity and avoid anything that draws unnecessary attention. I dedicate my body to my husband as a pure gift under the umbrella of the marriage covenant made in front of you.
    (Proverbs 31:25, I Timothy 2:9)
  • Lord, remove all the pride that I have about my complexion, height, body shape and my facial beauty. Make me pure with the humility about my outward appearance may I never look down on others for their outward appearance. Remove all the inferior thoughts about my complexion, height, body shape and my facial beauty. Lord, I accept my body just the way you have fearfully and wonderfully made and submit it to purity.
    (Psalm 139:14)
  • Lord, remove all the worries about the physical intimacy between me and my husband. I shall submit that area into your hands and prioritize wisdom and love and affection between me and my husband. Lord, I know that physical intimacy is quite important but the highest priority is love and when the love is strong physical intimacy will be stronger.
    (1 Corinthians 13:13, Song of Solomon 7:10)
  • Lord, I submit my marriage bed into your hands, protect it from all the impure thoughts, impure actions, porn and impure intentions. I understand that every lustful thought and action outside the boundaries of marriage is impure. Lord, I proclaim that the physical intimacy between husband and wife is Holy in the eyes of God and I declare and decree your blessing over our marriage bed today! (Proverbs 5:18,19)

For your Husband

  • Lord, I pray that You bless my husband’s health pertaining to the sexual abilities(Proverbs 5:18). Heal all the emotional wounds that are creating stress in the husband in getting into intimate relationship with the wife.
    (Jeremiah 30:17)
  • Lord, remove all the hatred, ego and anger over the wife that is affecting the physical intimacy. May the husband be filled with love and affection when he approaches the marriage bed.
    (Ephesians 5:25)
  • Lord, remove all the temptations that draw him towards adultery, extra marital affairs and pornography. Teach him the dangers of sexual impurity and teach him the blessings behind pure marriage bed.
    (Proverbs 5:20,21)
  • Lord, provide favor for the wife in the eyes of the husband so that she may look beautiful and attractive to him even if there are many attractive women outside, just like how Esther was attractive to Agasaurus.
    (Esther 2:17, Proverbs 5:19)
  • Lord, guard him from wrong advice from worldly friends in terms of porn and adultery. Guard him from the seductive words, behavior and clothing of perverted women. Protect him from falling for virtual cheap instant relationships that swim through the social networking platforms.
    (Proverbs 7:4,5 & 21 – 23)

Amen!

Today’s Promise: 

He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22

Today’s Command:

 Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Hebrews 13:4

30 days of Praying for you and your husband! Day 5

Day 5

Pray for prudence

Prudence – means seeing ahead, sagacity, foresight

When I look around the world, people are in a rush, on one hand they are doing so much to save time but on the other hand people are not prudent enough to do things that needs to be done ahead of time in order to prevent some dangers in future. Prudence is not a quality people are interested in. Even in the workplaces the lazy and cunning shortcut snakes are given more preference than the prudent and wise ants. But prudence is quite important, especially for women. We may have a weak physical stature but God has given us a heart of wisdom. When we invest our time into listening to wise woman we may gather a lot of information that we never knew. (Note: When I say wise women you may assume that I’m talking about old women. By all means we should honor them and hear their advice. But the sad truth is that not all old women are wise women and there are many young women who are so wise beyond their age and many old women who wasted their life fighting and quarreling. Be wise in choosing the right advice from real wise women.) Most important of all read 1 chapter(according to the date) from the book of proverbs each day throughout your life so that you may become more prudent and make a note of the Bible verses that shed light on prudence.

For you

  • Lord, teach me to be prudent in planning my day ahead of time so that I’m not stressed all day. Help me to decide according to what I am capable of doing and to give my best in everything that I do.
  • Lord, every time I make a mistake help me learn from it and never to go back to that same mistake again.
  • Lord, help me gather prudence from the word of God, from you and from the life experiences that you provide me. May I never forget those life lessons. Give me the presence of mind to recollect and apply in my life.
  • Guide me to keep wise people around me who will guide me in a prudent way. May I not be corrupted by foolish counsel or any misguidance from a dominating individual.
  • Lord, give me a heart that discerns the situation and people around me. Let me not trust people too soon without knowing them well.

For your Husband

  • Lord, I pray that you will teach my husband your ways of wisdom. Teach him to unlearn all the earthly ways he has been taught. Reveal your plans to him and guide him at each step.
  • Lord, Help him to find Godly company who are trustworthy. Protect his ears from all the unwise counsel from the cunning and jealous people.
  • Lord, I pray against all the evil schemes that is working to destroy all the efforts put by my husband by bringing small folly that can devastate his actions.
  • Lord, I pray that my husband will be an ardent observer of the things that are happening around so that he may be aware of the times that we are in and act prudently.
  • Lord, I pray that my husband is prudent in taking decisions. Give him the presence of mind to say ‘No’ to the destructive traps brought by the evil one. Give him the prudent heart to say ‘Yes’ to useful and productive things in life.

Amen!

Today’s Promise:

Houses and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord. Proverbs 19:14

Today’s Command:

The naive believes everything, but the sensible man considers his steps. Proverbs 14:15